What do I wear?

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Find your Goldilocks zone!

This is just my personal opinion 😊

This question is often asked by parents at various stages of the litigation journey.  I was criticised once for suggesting that, when meeting the barrister in person for the first time, dressing well would give a better impression.  Stating the bleeding obvious, I thought…

To which a very opinionated and overbearing mum replied that it’s irrelevant what you wear as the case hinges on the facts and not whether you turn up in ripped jeans and a t shirt.   Not one to get into online arguments I let this go, as I accept there was some justification in her argument. 

However, I had spoken to a couple of solicitors who explained to me that when they take on a case they are, right from the get go, looking at the ultimate ending, that is a full court hearing.  They prepare their paperwork meticulously, seek expert advice and guidance from their witnesses, examine the evidence robustly so that it will withstand judicial scrutiny and they ensure your witness statement is coherent and accurate.

The barrister and solicitors are experts at getting to the truth which is why they usually do such a good job for their clients.  The important facts are the evidence, its veracity, and its provability.  Meeting you, the client, for the first time is a part of the jigsaw they are assembling.  

At this important meeting, the barrister will be in a suit and tie, the legal team will all be wearing formal work clothes and the experts are at the very least, smart casual.  So, is rocking up in flip flops and a Def Leppard t shirt really appropriate?   Does it show respect for the proceedings and the legal process?  How you dress is one of the ways you present yourself to the world.  Would you go to a job interview or a customer facing job wearing this ensemble? 

We live in the real world, not the one we would like it to be.  If you stood in the witness box in front of a judge to give your evidence wearing old sweatpants and a crop top you risk looking disrespectful to the court.  After all, even Joe Bloggs who is in the dock for whacking a customer in the Dog and Duck on a Friday night, will be in a suit, despite the fact he’s never worn one in his life.  

So I would advise you to wear something that you’re comfortable in but also looks fairly smart.  Basically, smart casual.  If the solicitor is coming to your home to take your first witness statement, then just wear something you’re comfortable in regardless of what it is, it’s your territory. 

If you have to appear in a court then your barrister will advise you, and you could always borrow Joe Bloggs’ suit.       

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